For the final week of class, I decided to focus on Chapter 26 of It’s a Jungle in There by Steven Schussler. Remember the Golden Rule: “treat others the way you want to be treated.” Chapter 26 “Don’t Burn Bridges” reminded me of that concept. It is never good to burn any bridges unless the circumstances force it. The first reason is that you never know who could help you fulfill your dreams. The second reason is that the way you treat someone now will come back to you in some form or fashion in the future.
Here is an example:
“Imagine you’re interviewing for a job that has dozens of candidates. The interview goes well and you appear to be a great match for the position. During the meeting, the interviewer looks at your résumé and realizes that you used to work with an old friend of hers. After the interview, she makes a quick call to her friend to ask about you. A casual comment from her friend about your past performance can seal the deal or cut you off at the knees. In many cases, you will believe the job was in the bag, right before you receive a rejection letter. You’ll never know what hit you.”
I personally try to live by the concept of greeting the janitor the same way you would treat the CEO. No matter what someone looks like or where someone comes from, you should treat them just as positive as you would treat anyone else.
Let’s take Tyler Perry as an example. Tyler Perry is a famous writer, actor, producer, screenwriter, filmmaker, etc He had a very tough life growing up. He was even homeless and lived out of his car at some point in life. I live in Asheville, NC and downtown Asheville has many homeless people living on the streets. I have witnessed people never acknowledge them. I can guarantee that people treated Tyler Perry the same way. Today his net worth is over 600 million dollars.
Moral of the story is, your life can change in the blink of an eye. The person that you once treated like crap could be the same person will make or break your career or success in the future.
Source:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/creativityrulz/200908/its-small-world-dont-burn-bridges
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